[Improve][SDK] Update message metrics when no available worker in the DataProxy Go SDK

[yfsn666]

Description

In the Dataproxy Go SDK, messages rejected with ErrNoAvailableWorker in Send/SendAsync are not reflected in the message metrics, so these failures are invisible in monitoring.

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